I believe I have to agree with Holly Go Lightly. I wish that more of us would realize this and be grateful for those brought into our lives to help us grow, teach us lessons, and to love or not love back. It is just another version of the Gestalt Prayer, isn't it? -tM
I do my thing and you do your thing.
I am not in this world to live up to your expectations,
And you are not in this world to live up to mine.
You are you, and I am I,
and if by chance we find each other, it's beautiful.
If not, it can't be helped.
(Fritz Perls, "Gestalt Therapy Verbatim", 1969)